Does the following mean anything to you ?

Let me clear one up, this is gumtree after all, I am NOT looking for a quick wam-bam thank you mam. All the ad's on here seem to be about that and while sex is good - its not what I am looking for. If a relationship of any kind is good and the right spark is there, sex should happen natually - or maybe I'm being nieve.

I want a friend first and foremost, someone who I enjoy being with and who enjoys being with me - we have to click. we have to be able to chat about anything and everything but also be happy to just sit and enjoy the silence - does this make any sense?

Sex without an emotional spark is empty and hollow so I am looking for the spark first and the rest can follow when its ment to happen.

Music plays a big part of my life, I cant live with out it. I am really into dance music - all kinds of house (always have been) and I love classic Rock (guns n roses and so on) and modern indie bands like Kaiser Chiefs, The Kooks and so on so my ideal partner should really be into this also. I do NOT like Gangster Rap or most of todays current hip hop or RnB - it just leave me cold. I prefer the old school - Grandmaster Flash, Mellie Mel, TLC and so on.

I am not a "must go out every weekend" kinda person but I do like to go out sometimes. It just seems to me that most of the guys you see in the city centre at weekends are just knobs, they dont know how to behave, cant handle their drink and generally spoil it for everyone so I tend to go out of the city for a night out. I prefer a meal in a romantic country pub to a bawdy nightclub but thats probibly my age showing LOL.

I love getting out and about and visting places I have not been before - it could be a town out in the country or a day trip up to the coast. Popping up to maybe leeds for a days shopping or nipping off to a small quite country hotel for a romantic weekend full of kisses and cuddles and long walks across the fields.

I cook and cook well - I enjoy the cooking but not the washing up afterwards (who does hah hah) but I would not want to be the only cook in the relationship. I believe it should be 50/50. Yes I hoover, Wash clothes, Iron and dust but so should you (see 50/50) a relationship of any kind, be it a romantic one or just friendship, needs working at all the time and it should be an equal partnership in many ways.

OK, OK I have waffled on enough for you to get a flava of where I am coming from. If you like what you read then drop me a line and lets at least chat by e-mail.

Hope to hear from you,

Nottsguy2008

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